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    Thursday
    Jun302016

    Our God (Yup, they are a little more radical)

    Thursday
    Jun302016

    Thursday Details

    We had Eric over for lunch. I'm really enjoying walking to work. I've always wanted the miles to shrink in my life. 

    Caleb called us from bootcamp and said, "I got off the bus and this officer was screaming at us at the top of his lungs for us to give him pushups...... It was AWESOME!"  Love that guy.

    I'm looking forward to the three day weekend. I do have a lot to write.  Two major asignments and a humor piece for stand firm.

    Nathan is now in Chattanooga.  So glad he made it.  Now looking for a place to live. 

     

     

     

    Tuesday
    May032016

    summary

    Restless yearning

    hope's exile

    candle burning

    Second mile

    secret sorrow

    heavy load

    dark tomorrow

    death's forbode

    then His glory

    firm embace

    love's grand story

    Blest in grace.

     

    Monday
    May022016

    The Heart 

    So there it is- this beating jewel.

    I've never seen you but you, o friend have always been with me.

    so fagile

    so hidden among the swirl of life's mystery. 

    breakable, innocent, wounded and filled with an apptitude for wonder

    Thinking yet thoughtless

    Whole yet part

    exploring the knit of passion and destiny

    It revels in the glory of vulnerability and connection

    My heart- open and broken and wondering and everything I fear

    Needing a guard

    Seeking identy and weeping if not laughing or sighing. 

     

     

     

     

    Monday
    Jan182016

    A Favorite Bob Benson Story: He said his lines

    One of our sons, Mike, wanted to take private speech. He’s such a talker anyway, I recommended hush instead. But it was inexpensive and he was interested, so we let him.

    The climax of the year’s labor was a two-hour assortment of clowns, kings, rabbits, and forgotten lines known as the Speech Recital, given to a devoted audience of eager parents and trapped friends.

    Mike was a king. He looked rather regal, too, if I do say so myself. At least until the queen, a head taller and twenty pounds heavier, stood beside him casting a pall on his regality.

    He had only three lines to say — nine months of speech, three short lines. And they came very late, in the last moment of the last act of the very last play. Anyway you looked at it, he was not the star. At least not to anyone except a couple about halfway back on the left side.

    It was a long evening and it was miserably hot. But Mike waited and he was ready and he said his lines and he said them well. Not too soon, not too late, not too loud, not too soft, but just right, he said his lines.

    I’m just a bit player, too, not a star in any way. But God gave me a line or so in the pageant of life, and when the curtain falls and the drama ends, and the stage is vacant at last,

    I don’t ask for a critic’s raves or fame in any amount. I only hope that he can say, “He said his lines. Not too soon, not too late, not too loud, not too soft. He said his lines and he said them well.”--Bob Benson

    Wednesday
    Oct212015

    50 Ways to Love Your Pastor

    ….With apologies to Paul Simon

    “The problem is all inside your head” he said to me.
    The deacon who always thought so logically
    I’d like to help you to help him, supportively.
    There must be 50 ways to love your pastor!

    1. Shake his hand, Fran.
    2. Tell him you loved his sermon, Herman.
    3. Compliment his kids, Sid.
    4. Send him a friendly email, Gail.
    5. Pray for his spouse, Rouse.

    Just listen to me…

    6. Let him know that you’ve got his back, Jack.
    7. Help him fix his sedan, Stan.
    8. Give him your vacation condo key, Lee. (His family needs a week free.)
    9. In business meeting, don’t try to discuss much.
    10. Compliment his style, Miles.

    He’ll think you’re the best!

    11. Pay off the church bus, Gus.
    12. Help him make peace with the WMU, Lou.
    13. Give him a cost of living raise, Jay.
    14. Volunteer at the kids event, Vince.
    15. Pay his green fee, Tee.

    Bonus Ideas:

    16. Give him grace. He’s going to mess things up from time to time. Allow him to make mistakes.
    17. Learn his allergies and feed him accordingly. By the way, 8 out of 10 pastors are Green-Bean-French-Onion-Mushroom-Soup-Casserole intolerant.
    18. Don’t call him on his day off.
    19. Check your own agenda at the door when discussing change.
    20. Acknowledge that he usually works 50 hours a week and not five like some people think.
    21. Offer to go with him when he visits the hospital. (And buy the ice cream!)
    22. Send him a financial love offering after a funeral. (He’s the last one the grieving family needs to think of during their time of need. A gift coming from someone outside the family would mean a lot.)
    23. Celebrate his staff, too! A good pastor always wants his wingmen (and women) celebrated. Chances are he gets great joy in this.
    24. Pray strategically for him on Sunday night. He is probably mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually exhausted. His face hurts from smiling. He’s probably had a few jabs from irregular people. His voice is weary, not only from preaching but from conversation, counseling and meetings. If he’s going to do or say something stupid, it’s probably between the hours of 9:30 Sunday night and 9  Monday morning. As one pastor once told me, “Don’t take Monday’s off as a pastor. Nobody wants to feel that cruddy on their day off.”
    25. Send him a note on his anniversary with the church. Do not say in that note: I can’t believe you’re still here.
    26. Unless the skies part and a booming audible Voice shakes the shingles from your house, don’t say, “I’ve got a word from the Lord for you.” There’s no easier way to mess with a pastor’s mind than to speak verbatim words allegedly spoken uniquely to him that might just possibly be kind of the Word of God. You know what? No. Don’t go there – unless the aforementioned weather conditions have taken place. If so, then go there, write a book and give the proceeds to Lottie Moon.
    27. Avoid the temptation to make him a part of the Trinity. He is not your rescuer on the white horse, but he does know One who is.
    28. Don’t just say, “Great Sermon.” Let him know what particular thing was most impactful for you. This will help him prepare next time.
    29. Do not discuss his salary in an open forum. (I can’t believe I’m even writing that! Yuk!) It feels yucky for him. It feels yucky for his wife. And you can bet it feels yucky for his kids.
    30. Don’t just help identify problems, help him fix them!
    31. Let his kids be kids not extensions of his ministry or Christianity Today cover models.
    32. Pay for wellness perks like a gym membership. This may save a hospital bill.
    33. Realize that Sundays come around pretty regular-like. Don’t expect him to knock it out of the park every time. And when he doesn’t meet your standards. 34. Check your diva scale. It might be high.
    35. Be a bouncer. If you know that your pastor is being worked over stupidly by an irregular person, run interference and learn some Spirit-filled bouncer moves.
    36. Provide a cold bottle of water on his desk on Sunday morning. I had someone do this for me every Sunday and it was perhaps the coolest simple blessing ever. It was kind of like saying, “Sock it to them and stay hydrated. We love you and want you to be spot on today!”
    37. Amazon gift cards. Only he knows exactly what he needs and he’s probably not going to tell you. An Amazon card is universally awesome.
    38. Upgrade his computer. Most pastors wait way too long to get a new computer. How long has your pastor been waiting? Here’s a litmus test: if the front of his computer says: “Commodore” or he’s using WordPerfect 4.0, it’s probably time.
    39. Celebrate his accomplishments.
    40. Give him an extended sabbatical every five years or so. If he’s made it five years, he’s beaten the odds by a couple of years.
    41. Give him a gift to give to his wife. Don’t take credit. Just say, “I saw this and thought, “Hey, I bet Pastor Waldo would give this kind of gift to his wife. So I bought it so you could give it to her from you because you are so thoughtful!” (Then wink.)
    42. Keep the kids during worship. Some call it bed babies. Some call it extended session. But whatever you call it. It is a blessing not to have to worry that people are lined up to serve. Also a screaming baby versus a sermon in the same room? Who’s going to win that match? I think you know.
    43. Express your confidence in him. This can simply be done by saying, “You da man!!
    44. Give him books. Chances are, he loves books. BUT DO NOT ASK HIM IF HE READ IT. When you do that, you have not given him a gift, you’ve given him a task.
    45. Write a note to their kids and state the obvious: “Being a preacher’s kid is tough. We love you so much for putting up with stuff.”
    46. When he and the family go out of town. Mow their grass.
    47. Give him tickets to the big game. (In other words, not State vs. Northern Illinois Community Career College.)
    48. Compare him with a Bible character, say, “You remind me of Stephen- boldly speaking the truth.” Just make sure you don’t compare him to Ahab, Jonah, Samson, or the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse.”
    49. Don’t exclude him or his wife from parties. Chances are he won’t turn it into a funeral. In fact he might be more fun than you ever imagined he’d be. When at this well-fortified festive event, don’t talk church with him. Unstick his brain from the task for a little while. Also don’t be offended if he says no.
    50. Buy him some waders. He doesn’t walk on water.

    Tuesday
    Oct132015

    What is Honor?

    Honor is patience with those you love, not speaking harshly, respecting people who do for you when you cannot do those things by yourself, Honor is being a listening ear when someone is hurting. Honor is defending and praying for family members. Honor is remembering special days in a person's life. Honor is defending the fort and having each other's back. Honor is defending your comrades and understanding the chain of command. Honor is manhood in that when you become a man you provide for other people. You realize this life is not about you, it's about others. Honor is serving without the promise of return. Honor is realizing when you have been given food that you didn't plant, slaughter or earn and you feel a sense of grace and gratefulness to God and others. Honor is not found in selfies. Honor is when you turn the camera around and celebrate others. Honor is looking at your future and the future of others rather than allowing the past trap you in bitterness. Honor is turning the other cheek when you have been falsely accused knowing the Lord will have the last word and it is not our to judge another righteousness. Honor is self evaluation and being able to filter our actions through truth. Honor is saying, "Wow, I blew it. Will you forgive me?"  Honor is replying, "Yes I forgive you. Let's work on doing things differently starting today"

    I truly believe God honors those who honor others and Him.